Be constructive

The way couples handle conflict is the most important factor in determining whether their relationship works out or not. When couples start yelling and throwing things they won't stay together for long. If you´re having trouble start the art of constructive arguing. In strong marriages partners take control of their disagreements by establishing ground rules. If the conflict is escalating and unproductive, agree to continue the discussion after a cooling-off period. Also truly listen to each other and let your partner speak out.

Be 100 percent

Also don´t strive for a relationship that's 50-50 and add everything up. She might be better in housekeeping and he´s better at fixing the roof. Partners should each give 150 percent. In a good relationships, couples give everything they can and respect that each person gives different things. In case you think your partner did a great job and contributed more than you then feel free to make her a little present.

Be humorous

Humor keeps a couple together. When a couple can no longer laugh together it's a signal that the soul has gone out of their marriage and they are headed for trouble. Even if you have life's miseries, share them witout losing the sense of humor. Whether it's the car breaking down, a nasty cold or a missed promotion - there will be better times again! So why complain it´s just important that you help each other get through: I can count on you, our world is all right!

Be sexy

All want passion and couples want it with each other. They want to grow old together as lovers, not roommates. Being deeply sexual over time with your life partner produces great joy. Lagging sexual energy a lot results from comfort which is necessary to relationships. Consciously managed loose of comfort can promote erotic energy. Try new stuff together. Here at amojoo it´s exactly the right place to get started!