by Funk S.
Sex in Public: Coitus Publicus
Whether on the beach, in the front seat of an old car, or in front of a mayor´s office, these exhibitionists like to knock boots out in the open. Apparently, many of you think there is something thrilling about brazenly getting it on in public: 64 percent of a recent online sex survey admitted to having indulged in public sex! It truly open doors to your erotic potential, so get lusty in less-than-private locations. Here, advice on busting a move without getting busted. Whether it's an alfresco fling on your balcony or some action on an airplane, exploring a bit of exhibitionism could be in order. "The possibility of getting caught is a huge turn-on," says Bryce Britton, a sex therapist in California. "There's intense excitement in the idea of being a little bad."
Taboo as the Turn-On
Forbidden trysts invite an element of outrageousness that can give your union a boost. "It's about variety, especially in long-term relationships where sex can become routine," notes sex therapist Michael Perry, Ph.D. "So while doing it in a hotel stairwell may not be inherently sexy, the environment is unconventional and very hot."
In fact, a recent study published in the Journal of Neuroscience reveals that parts of the brain associated with pleasure respond more to unexpected treats than to the predictable kind - and public sex has surprise built right in. So stun your beau by suggesting the cop a feel under the picnic blanket and watch his eyes light up.
Strange Sex Laws vs. Your Libido
If you decide to indulge in such daredevil dalliances, discretion is advised. The law won't side with your lust, says Richard Posner, a judge and coeditor of "A Guide to Sex Laws". Every state has statutes against public indecency and nudity. If caught in the act, you can be charged with a misdemeanor, which could mean up to a year in jail (In Georgia 10 years if under the age of 18!!!)
Going public doesn't have to mean going all the way. Britton's advice is to start small - sexy but small: "When you're at a restaurant, say something suggestive to him over dinner," she says. "Then take off your shoe and fondle his groin with your foot under the table." If you're ready to graduate from PDA to the naughty whole nine yards, you'll need to pick a position that complements the compromising nature of the act. Public encounters generally don't allow for the luxury of lying down, so variations on standing and seated sex work best.
Read on Page 2: Before you take the risk of your coitus publicus, read the ten tips of engagement...
